Why are we creating MyKinkNet?

Modern kink culture was built by queer, trans, gender-nonconforming people, leatherfolk, and activists who fought for bodily autonomy against social and legal repression. MyKinkNet exists to honor that history and create a place that sticks to those values.

We are an explicitly queer-positive, inclusive platform. Right-wing, conservative, or discriminatory mindsets have no space here. If your values do not align with absolute bodily autonomy, intersectional respect, and consent, this is not the network for you.

Starting today, you can read our educational articles covering everything from kink history and relationship structures to safety, psychology, and material guides. This ensures that everyone who eventually enters our community shares a baseline of knowledge and respect.

Quality Takes Time: Human Moderation & Slow Growth

We refuse to turn this platform into another unmoderated, abandoned, toxic space overrun by bots, trolls and scammers. To keep our community safe, every profile, picture and major report on MyKinkNet will be reviewed by real human beings, not automated scripts.

Because human moderation requires time, effort, and care, patience is a core requirement for everyone joining us. We are building this space intentionally, step by step.

Where We Are Today

Our social features - including member profiles, direct messaging, topic groups, and chat rooms - are currently in active development. Rather than rushing an empty or unmoderated app into the world, we are launching our editorial foundation first.

Join the Founding 200 Members

When our Beta release goes live, the first 200 people who registered their email will receive free, full access to all community features as a thank-you for helping us build the foundation.

Later on, community features will carry a small and affordable Membership fee. This isn't about profit, it is how we keep the platform troll-free, pay for human moderation, and cover server costs while keeping our core dating features free for genuine users.

Latest Community Insights & Guides

Explore our editorial content focused on consent culture, definitions, and safe exploration while we build out the platform.